Session 7: Is Anyone in Need of You?

Evaluate your life, skills, and talents by asking yourself: Is anyone in need of me—of who I am and who God says I am? Do I have the ability to solve a problem in someone’s life? This principle comes from a personal reflection. For instance, if I claim to be a counselor but no one ever seeks me for counseling, life coaching, or any form of help, I must assess the situation. Am I walking in the purpose I believe is meant for me? I’d need to consider:

• Have I marketed myself effectively?
• Did I clarify my purpose and goals?
• Have I shared the right information?
• Did I create brochures or promotional materials?

It’s also crucial to consider whether you’re in the right time and season for your calling. If you’ve done all you can to make yourself marketable and confident in your purpose but still haven’t seen results, it might be time to reassess.

A Challenge For Single Women

I want to specifically challenge single women to reflect on this: Is anyone in need of who you are right now? There was a time in my life when I felt I had little to offer. I wasn’t ready to be a “helpmeet” as the Bible describes, because I was spent, torn, and broken. If you feel you’re in a broken place, ask yourself, “Is anyone in need of me in this state? Can anybody use the pain and hurt I carry?” If the answer is “No,” it’s important to work through these principles to facilitate healing. Once healed and walking in your healing, you’ll be able to offer emotional and spiritual support to others. Single women, consider this: Beyond your physical self, is your spiritual self ready to be needed? If you presented the spiritual version of yourself to a potential partner, would he find value in who you truly are? Remember, when you get married, your authentic self will emerge. Make sure that your spiritual self is strong enough to uplift and support your partner.

A Challenge For Married Women

Marriage involves a continuous process of self-assessment. The qualities we bring as wives aren’t something we start only when we marry—they are ongoing. And yes, men must bring and maintain their contributions as well!

Self-Reflection And Growth

I encourage all women to reflect deeply on this session’s question: Is anyone in need of who you are today? If not, it may be time to adopt new principles. By understanding your belief system, building confidence, and removing any negative perceptions, you’ll be better equipped to solve problems. A spouse or future spouse will look for a partner who can support and help solve life’s challenges, just as you will look for someone who can do the same for you. So, assess and diagnose where you stand. This self-awareness will make you stronger and more prepared for meaningful connections.

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